Two of Swords

You are avoiding a decision at work by staying busy near it. The busyness is real. It is also arranged so the decision never gets a quiet hour.

What are you not deciding because either answer costs you something?

Book one hour this week for only that decision, and decide in it.

There is a money choice you have not made, and not making it is quietly making it for you.

What is the default outcome if you keep not deciding, and do you want it?

Write both options and their cost today. Choose one before the weekend.

You are not deciding about this relationship, and you have found a way to make not deciding look like patience.

What would you have to admit if you decided today?

Say that admission to yourself in writing tonight, then decide what to do with it.

You are frozen between two options and calling it weighing. Weighing ended a while ago. This is standing still.

What are you protecting by refusing to choose?

Flip a coin today. Notice which result you hope for. Choose that.

You have gone quiet on yourself. There is a question you will not ask because either answer would ask something of you.

What are you not letting yourself know?

Ask the question on paper tonight and answer it before you sleep.

You cannot pick between two directions for the work, so you are making neither. Both are possible. Neither is happening.

Which direction would you regret not trying more?

Pick that one today and work in it for a week before revisiting.